08.18.08

I finally get the computer and can’t think of a thing to say

Posted in Random at 7:24 pm by canearl

  Needless to say Hubs has monopolized my computer.  I’m not bitter.  The few times I’ve sat down to blog I can’t seem to put a coherent thought together.  I know that that’s never stopped me before.

We went to the rodeo Saturday night and I took a ton of pictures because I’m the official “Family Historian.”  That’s what Hubs calls me and I hope that my kids appreciate it one day.  I’m just too lazy to try and put a good half way decent post together with pictures and all.  So, for now anyway, that’s all you get- on Saturday we went to the rodeo. 

Since Hubs has a meeting at church tonight that means that I have the computer all to myself!  I should get some posts together for WFWM and Things I Love Thursday, but who am I kidding - I’m sure I’ll just watch Big Brother since I missed it last night.

Why did I miss Big Brother last night?  I’m so glad you asked.  We went to our friends house to have dinner.  All together there were 3 families and we all have 3 kids each so you guessed it- 9 kids.  Thankfully they’re all about the same age so they had a blast.  The food was awesome (I need to get the recipe Lynsey) and so was the fellowship.  Lynsey was so sweet and bought me a big pack of paper plates and disposable sippy cups (I didn’t even know there was such a thing) because of my broken dishwasher.

Speaking of my dishwasher.  Handy Dandy Hubs disassembled it and guess what- now it works!!  Yes you read that right.  After- what a week?- I have a dishwasher back and working.  I told Hubs that I’m cautiously optimistic, but the first load out was clean so it looks like we’re back in business.  Good-bye dishpan hands.

So there you go- good weekend, good friends, and what seems to be a working dishwasher.

08.15.08

One week in

Posted in Hubs at 6:37 pm by canearl

  Well it’s been one week since Hubs has been home 24/7 and so far it’s going pretty good.  The kids are having a hard time understanding why he can’t play with them every minute of the day since he’s home.  They’re learning to adjust and I am too.  It’s been a little strange having to share my computer, but I realize that his job right now is to look for his new job.

My job is to check out houses on realtor.com whenever he mentions a new city that he’s interested in.  So far he’s applied for several positions around where we live on top of positions in Arizona, Oklahoma, Florida, and North Carolina.  We’re excited to see what- if anything- opens up.  We’re just trying to be super patient as God answers our prayers and closes doors.  Or at least it seems that way since he hasn’t gotten any bites yet.

On the other hand we’ve been super blessed by way of craigslist.  We’ve sold several of our own Little Tikes backyard things- along with some stuff my mom had.  My sister is even going to give us one of her Little Tikes slide to sell.  We’ve sold everything the same day we posted it- and (this is the big shocker)- everyone who said they would buy it actually showed up and bought it.  If that’s not a miracle of God I dont’ know what is. 

(In case you haven’t sold stuff on craigslist- you normally get several people that are really really interested and really want to buy it, but never show up.  One woman who’s coming to pick something up as we speak even promised me that she wouldn’t be a “craigslist no-show”).

Hopefully we’ll survive another week of 24/7 togetherness.  They say that what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger right?

08.14.08

More than I can handle

Posted in Uncategorized at 12:00 am by canearl

I know that God never gives us more than we can handle, but right now he’s coming mighty close.  You probably think that I’m referring to Hubs’ recent lay off.  You’d be wrong.  I’m referring to the fact that our dishwasher no longer works.

I’ll give you a minute to say a prayer for me.

Now under normal situations we’d go down to Home Depot or Lowes and charge it and pay it off in 2 months.  We try very hard to stay out of debt, but I’m sorry- a dishwasher is a necessity around here.  Let me prove my point- these dishes: are just from yesterday afternoon and last night.  I washed dishes twice yesterday and still have this lovely bunch to wash. 

The ironic thing is Jill’s dishwasher went out not too long ago and I made some comment about how I’d die if my went out.  Here I am dying.  Someone save me!

08.13.08

The problem with invisible friends

Posted in Kids at 12:00 am by canearl

  Tonight Hubs and I were in the kitchen talking and Baby #1 and Baby #2 were in the living room playing Candy Land.  We could hear them arguing, but were trying not to get involved and just let them work it out.  After about 5 minutes Baby #1 starts crying and whining and I’d had enough.  I asked him what the problem was- here’s the conversation:

Me: “Baby #1- what’s the problem- why are you crying?”

Baby #1: “Baby #2 won’t let pretend Joshua have a turn.”

Me:- “Baby #2 you need to let pretend Joshua have a turn before you go again” (I looked at Hubs and said “am I really having this conversation?”).

Baby #2 starts to breakdown into a total meltdown.  Just another day in the life.

08.11.08

My Olympic Dream

Posted in Random at 8:50 pm by canearl

Many, many years ago I was a competitive swimmer (okay sis stop laughing).  I joined the swim team in the 7th grade.  My best friend at the time was a really good swimmer and she’d been swimming competitively for several years so I figured- what the heck- I’d give it a go.

You should know that I’m just about the least competitive person on the planet.  If I win great- if I don’t no big deal.  It just doesn’t matter that much to me.  Swimming was much more of a social thing.  I got to travel from my smallish city in West Texas to the bigger cities of Austin and Dallas.  I’d do a little swimming- normally only one event and then sit around and chat the rest of the time.

When we moved from smallish city to the bigger city we live in now we joined the swim team here in an effort to meet people.  My parents threw down the gauntlet.  No more 50 meter races.  I need to expand to 100 meters or I had to quit swim team. 

After one horrendous try at 100 meters at a meet back in smallish city (I started hyperventilating because it was so much longer than 50 meters- I didn’t finish the race- I was 13 give me a break) I decided that I would have let my swimming career die. 

Which in all honesty was fine with me.  On top of being non-competitive I’m also not an athlete.  Not the kind of person you want on your team.  I’ve been watching the Olympics and I realized that I so do not have what it takes to even be a mediocre athlete.  I do admire their determination and drive though.  Maybe my kids will pick up where I left off.  Hopefully they’ll break the cycle of mediocrity.

08.08.08

The “R” Word

Posted in Hubs at 12:00 am by canearl

  Today is Hubs’ first official day unemployed.  I’m pretty sure that his days of unemployment won’t last too long because I’ve already got a nice little to-do list going.  I’m sure he’d rather work at McDonald’s than work on stuff around the house for me.  And let me just say that it doesn’t bode well for my housewife duties when one of his jobs is to sow a button on my shorts (which is so ironic considering I’ve sewed a quilt, but can’t sew on a button).  I love my well rounded husband.

When we first found out about his lay off I really felt like God was telling me that I need to be up for anything.  Including moving.  I have absolutely no desire to move 3 kids ages 5 and under anywhere, but I feel like I need to be open to what God wants to do so I told him “yes Lord.”  I decided not to say anything to Hubs about it and just see what happened.

That night when I got home from the Beth Moore thing we were talking and he brought up the “R” word- relocation.  I told him my feelings on it- that it’s not something I want to do, but we have to leave our options open. 

The thought of moving makes me terribly sad and a little excited too.  The sad thing is we have some of the best friends that a family could ever want.  We have an awesome church, I have a wonderful Bible study and we have a great life here.  We’re about 1 block from the elementary school my kids will attend.  About 2 blocks from our church.  This is home to us.  It’s scary to think of trying to re-create this somewhere else.

The exciting thing is it’s new.  Hubs and I have lived here for 8 1/2 years.  That’s the longest either one of us have ever lived in one place- ever.  So we do have a bit of an itch.  Now the thought of putting our house on the market, finding new pre-schools, a new church and new friends is enough to make my hair curl with worry, but I know that it’s all in God’s hands.

So we’ll see where he takes us.  I’m hoping that it’s a job with our town- as a town engineer meaning a 10 minute commute.  But if that’s not God’s will we’re open to where he wants to send us.

08.07.08

Things I Love Thursday- Borax

Posted in Uncategorized at 12:00 am by canearl

I love love love Borax.  If you’ve never heard of it it’s in your laundry detergent aisle and it can be used for all kinds of different cleaning things.  I use 1/2 a cup in my wash to make my clothes brighter and it also helps get the stains out (and it’s a whole lot cheaper than the Oxy powder stuff).  I can only vouch for the laundry cleaning, but when studying the box (yes I actually study things when I’m going to put out there as something that I love) it can actually be used for lots of different things like:

Cleaning porcelain

Wash dedicates

Deodorize garbage pails

Cleaning/deodorizing your refrigerator

Baby clothes

Fine China

Humidifiers

Toilet Bowls

I mean the possibilities are endless people.  And I have to point out that I’ve also seen it as a cleaning agent in “green” cleaning.  So it’s good for the environment to boot.  It just doesn’t get better than that.  Cheap, works well, and a “green” product.  I love it!

Check out The Diaper Diaries for me things people love.

08.06.08

How Blessed Am I?

Posted in Kids at 12:41 pm by canearl

Today when I took the kids to swimming lessons I had Baby #3 sitting in my lap facing me.  We were playing peek-a-boo and it dawned on me that there is no place I’d rather be- nothing I’d rather be doing than watching my kids learn to swim and playing peek-a-boo with my baby.  I’m so blessed that I have found my calling and that - at least at this moment in time- I’m loving it.

Set In My Ways

Posted in Uncategorized at 12:00 am by canearl

 The biggest challenge to Hub’s recent lay off hasn’t been the stress of him losing his job, or looking for new leads- or anything like that.  It’s been sharing my computer.  Hubs has always had a work laptop so he used that and I’d use my computer. 

Now he’s totally hijacking my computer and changing things!!  I know- the nerve!  This morning he actually told me that he organized my favorites for me because the way I had it didn’t make any sense.  It made perfect sense to me. 

This was after I asked him to stop messing with stuff.  Like changing the font size for my websites.  Hello- smallest should not even be an option- who can read script that small?  It’s not like I need extra large, but something a little bigger than smallest should suffice.

This computer sharing just might be the end of us.  I can share a bed, share a house, share a car, but I don’t know if I can share my computer.

08.05.08

The Power Or Prayer

Posted in Kids, Uncategorized at 7:00 pm by canearl

Yesterday we had our first swim lessons.  Yes it’s August and we’re just getting started.  It wasn’t my first choice, but hey it’s a private thing and we signed up back in April or May and you get what you get.  Baby #1 did great- as I expected.  He had swim lessons through the city last year (which were soooo lame- he learned to put his face in the water.  I could have done that and saved us $50) and did fine so I didn’t expect any problems from him.

Baby #2 on the other hand wasn’t digging the lessons- AT ALL.  Which is weird because she’s been in the pool practically since she was born since my mom has a pool at her house.  About 5 minutes in she announces that she’s done swimming.  She doesn’t want to swim anymore.  I told her to hush up and listen to her coach and keep at it. 

Keep in mind that it’s about 95 degrees and it’s only 11 am and I have an almost 2 year old that is bound and determined to take swimming lessons too even though she’s not officially enrolled.

So a few minutes later I was distracted by Baby #3 and looked up and saw that Baby #2 had gotten out of the pool and walked all the way over to where I was sitting- the other end of the pool- and she’s sobbing.  She doesn’t want to take lessons.  She doesn’t want to put her face in the water.  She’s done.

I scoop up Baby #3 and walk Baby #2 back to her coach and give her a little pep talk.

It started out as, “You get back in that pool right now!”

When that didn’t worked I used bribery.  Thankfully I don’t have to use bribery very often so it’s pretty effective.  Not yesterday.  I told her that I’d get her a milkshake, candy, and I think that I might have even uttered “ANYTHING YOU WANT- JUST GET IN THE POOL!” 

About this time the woman that runs the program came outside and told me that it’d be better if I stood behind this tree (shade was going the other way so I was in the BLISTERING HOT SUN) because Baby #2 needed to learn to trust the coach. 

So this is what I can hear intermittently: “I WANT MY MOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!”  I’m sure that her young coach just tacked on another 5 years to whenever he thought he’d be having kids after he was done with Baby #2.  I should loan her out as birth control.

So she ended the session sobbing.  I was hot and irritated and we went home.

Today was totally different.  I had several people praying for today (hey- nothing’s too small to take to God).  I even mentioned it to my Bible study leader yesterday.  She called to ask about Hubs’ job situation and I told her about it and got to the important stuff- prayer for our swimming lessons.  Wouldnt’ you know it - I got the prayer request email today (I wasn’t at Bible study today because it’s the same time as swimming lessons) and our request for swimming lessons was on the list (thanks ladies it worked!).

She was great today.  By the end of her lesson she was “swimming” as well as Baby #1.

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